and you care about each other more
you are in love, did not identify each other’s ideas you think you’re right, it seems that he dismissed.
the second person is concentric, how peers? Sometimes has more one loves the other party, listed in the sound of the feelings, there will be the turn of the phenomenon, two people taking turns to play the role of pursuit and was pursuing, but if one always plays the suitor, feelings of inadequacy go on for a long time, you will love and thirst, you’ll feel each other’s control, you will feel angry and cheated, suffering.
the second, you love to the other potential
are you love each other’s potential, rather than each other really looks like, you love each other’s future might look like, that he is not your partner, but your transformation object.
when you talk to people, to love and respect each other’s to be, rather than his future looks like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but now you have to be satisfied with his appearance.
three and you want to help each other
do you often feel that the other person is poor? do you think you have a responsibility to help cheer each other . up? do you fear if you depart from each other, he would stand against? if so, you end up with you I’m afraid is a rescue.
rescue mad not to find a suitable object, but of his compassion, can help to find a object. Looking for a trained trauma, fragile, depend on people, not to be love, hurt, by Mercy Health love you, he will give you a heart appreciation, such feelings like a rescue mission, rather than a sound, balanced feeling.
the key to remember here is respect, object must be of you love you can respect the person, you must be proud of each other, don’t you rescue your partner, but you really know him.
four, treat each other as objects of worship
young female stars in love with Secretary of the Director, College Professor love, fall in love with the boss, fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain, since unequal treatment between the two men.
both men and women must be treated equally, I am not referring to status, but cannot worship each other too much. The people will fall in love with God, generally low self-confidence, they felt very bad.